Showing posts with label contentment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label contentment. Show all posts

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Philippians 4:11 ~ Contentment

Hello Everyone!

Our Scripture for this post is Philippians 4:11-12 ~

"I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances." ~ New International Version

"Actually, I don't have a sense of needing anything personally. I've learned by now to be quite content whatever my circumstances. I'm just as happy with little as with much, with much as with little. I've found the recipe for being happy whether full or hungry, hands full or hands empty." ~ The Message Bible

"Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, [therewith] to be content. I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: every where and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need." ~ King James Version

"Not that I was ever in need, for I have learned how to get along happily whether I have much or little. I know how to live on almost nothing or with everything. I have learned the secret of living in every situation, whether it is with a full stomach or empty, with plenty or little." ~ New Living Translation

Contentment...

W.O.W.

What a word for today.

What a wonderful word to explore for today's society,

that...includes you and me!

What words pop
into your mind when you read the word "contentment"?

Peace?

Being Still?

Quietness?

Confidence?

That's what ped into my mind when I think of this word.

Here is what my computer's Thesaurus says:

  • Happiness
  • Satisfaction
  • Fulfillment
  • Pleasure
  • Cheerfulness
  • Ease
  • Comfort
  • Well Being
  • Serenity
  • Tranquility

So.....here is Paul, the author of Philippians, writing this book while

chained to a Roman guard.

But he has with these feelings of contentment

running through him like a might river!!




Could I do that?

Could you do that?

When I have a frustrating day at work, i.e., lots of interruptions,

office machine malfunctions, a project taking waaaaayyy too long

because of the process I am stuck with, coffee spilling all over my

desk....ugh.....

I want to lean toward losing my peace...

letting my frustration volumize up in me like a rolling stream

of lava from a volcano.

Arenal Volcano eruption September 2003

I must stop that more often and become THANKFUL for my job.

It is a gift from God. A TRUE Gift from God.

Everyone is so nice to me there!

Contentment.....

In research for this word at www.preceptaustin.org,

I found this sermon dated November 13, 2005 from Pastor Mark Adams

of Redland Baptist Church in Rockville, Maryland.

It is entitled, "Crossing From Covetousness To Contentment".

Pastor Adams states in his sermon that the opposite of contentment,

discontentment, starts with self-centeredness.

An "It's all about me" attitude.

This is not a Biblical way to live.

Jesus' example to us while He was here on earth was servanthood.

This started way back in the Garden of Eden.

Eve's sin was discontentment.

Pastor Adams says:

"
... in his book, Authentic Faith, Gary Thomas puts it this way. He says,

"Contentment is nothing more than 'soul rest.' It is satisfaction, peace, assurance, and a sense of well-being that is cultivated by pursuing the right things. Instead of more power, more money, more pleasure, and more control, ...we seek an 'abundance' of grace and peace...contentment is the opposite of striving, aching, restlessness, and worry."

As Bill Hybels says, "Contentment has more to do with focus than finances."

W.O.W. ~ leave it to Pastor Hybels to hit the nail on top of the head

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In another sermon that Pastor Adams preached, entitled

"It Is Well With My Soul"


he told the story of an elderly woman named Mable.

(Warning....this is looonnngg, but sooooo worth it....)

"In his book, Trying to be Good, Bob Schmidt tells about a friend he made in a state-run convalescent hospital—an elderly woman whose name was Mabel. He writes,

The hospital was not a pleasant place. It is large, understaffed, and overfilled with senile and helpless, lonely people who are basically waiting to die. On the brightest of days it seems dark inside, and smells of sickness and stale urine. I went there once or twice a week for three years, but I never wanted to go there, and I always left with a sense of relief. One Mother’s Day I was walking in a hallway that I had not visited before, looking in vain for a few who were alive enough to receive a flower and a few words of encouragement. This particular hallway seemed to contain some of the worst cases, strapped onto carts of into wheelchairs and looking completely helpless. As I neared the end of this hallway, I saw an old woman strapped up in a wheelchair. Her face was an absolute horror. The empty stare and white pupils of her eyes told me she was blind. The large hearing aid over one ear told me she was almost deaf. One side of her face was being eaten by cancer. There was a discolored and running sore covering part of one cheek, and it had pushed her nose to one side, dropped on eye, and distorted her jaw...so that what should have been the corner of her mouth was the bottom of her mouth. As a consequence, she drooled constantly.

I was told later that when NEW nurses arrived, the supervisors would send THEM to feed this woman, thinking that if they could stand this sight they could stand anything in the building. I also learned later that this woman was eighty-nine years old and that she had been here, bedridden, blind, nearly deaf, and alone, for twenty-five years. This was Mabel. I don’t know why I spoke to her—she looked less likely to respond than most of the people I saw in that hallway. But I put a flower in her hand and said, ‘Here is a flower for you. Happy Mother’s Day.’ She held the flower up to her face and tried to smell it, and then she spoke. Much to my surprise, her words, although somewhat garbled because of her deformity, were obviously produced by a clear mind. She said, ‘Thank you. It’s lovely. But can I give it to someone else? I can’t see it, you know, I’m blind.’ I said, ‘Of course,’ and pushed her in her chair back down the hallway to a place where I thought I could find some alert patients. I found one, and I stopped the chair. Mabel held out the flower and said, ‘Here, this is from Jesus.’ That was when it began to dawn on me that this was not an ordinary human being.

Later I wheeled her back to her room and learned more about her history. She had grown up on a small farm that she managed with only her mother until her mother died. Then she ran the farm alone until 1950 when her blindness and sickness sent her to the convalescent hospital. For 25 years she got weaker and sicker, with constant headaches, backaches, and stomachaches, and then the cancer came.

Her three roommates were all human vegetables who screamed occasionally but never talked. They often soiled their bedclothes, and because the hospital was understaffed—especially on Sundays when I usually visited—the stench was often overpowering. Mabel and I became friends over the next few weeks and I went to see her once or twice a week for the next three years. Her first words to me were usually an offer of hard candy from a tissue box near her bed. Some days I would read to her from the Bible and often when I would pause she would continue reciting the passage from memory, word-for-word. On other days I would take a book of hymns and sing with her, and she would know all the words of the old songs.

For Mabel, these were not merely exercises in memory. She would often stop in mid-hymn and make a brief comment about lyrics she considered particularly relevant to her own situation. I never heard her speak of loneliness or pain except in the stress she placed on certain lines in certain hymns. During one hectic week of final exams I was frustrated because my mind seemed to be pulled in ten directions at once with all of that things that I had to think about.
The question occurred to me, ‘What does Mabel have to think about—hour after hour, day after day, week after week, not even able to know if it’s day or night?’

So I went to her and asked, ‘Mabel, what do you think about when you lie here?’ And she said, ‘I think about my Jesus.’ I sat there, and thought for a moment about the difficulty, for me of thinking about Jesus for even five minutes and I asked, ‘What do you think about Jesus?’ She replied slowly and deliberately: ‘I think about how good He’s been to me. He’s been awfully good to me in my life, you know. I’m one of those kind who’s most satisfied...most CONTENTED...because of His friendship. Lots of folks would think I’m kind of old-fashioned. But I don’t care. I’d rather have Jesus. He’s all the world to me.’ An then Mabel began to sing an old hymn: ‘Jesus is all the world to me, my life, my joy, my all. He is my strength from day to day, Without Him I would fall. When I am sad, to Him I go, No other one can cheer me so. When I am sad, He makes me glad. He’s my friend.’

Mabel was a great student of contentment wasn’t she? She graduated with honors! It didn’t matter how much pain and sorrow—or how unfair life was for her—she had learned to trust and love her Lord. She developed a close relationship with Him—a relationship that satisfied her deepest longing...and that enabled her to be content even in her horrible circumstances—it gave her a peace like a river. It made her soul WELL."

I can think of no other way to end this but to play

"It Is Well With My Soul".

If you would like more information about the history of this

wonderful hymn, beyond what is in the video;

click on the link for Pastor Adams sermon entitled the

same name. Pastor Adams adds details that I had never

heard before.





Allow me to say as Pastor Adams did in his sermon...

"Let me ask—how are YOU doing when it comes to learning this vital lesson? How content are you? Have you become able to trust God no matter what happens?"

Let's work on our thankfulness and serving others,

Debbie G.

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Philippians 3:15-21

Hello Everyone!

I don't personally make New Year's Resolutions, per say...

but I thought this video was cute!! (Plz remember to turn off my Playlist)




How has 2009 gone for you so far???

So far...So good??

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I will say that I always wonder what the New Year will bring.

Could any of us predicted how 2008 turned out?

Each year when I put my Christmas tree away...

I ask myself the question...

"What will be different the next time I (read: my sweet husband)

take this tree out of the box at the end of this year?"

But as we are going to study in Chapter 4...

we are to LEARN to be content in whatever circumstance we find ourselves in...

Whether it be good times or bad times...

Whether it be for richer or poorer....

Whether it be a life and death matter....

(hmmm...sounds familiar...)

We are to be content and say, "I trust in You, O God, My times are in Your hands."

Psalm 31:14 & 15a, which happens to be my Life Verse(s).

I trust in You...My times are in Your hands....

Do I/we really mean that?

Easy words to say, but do we really MEAN what we say?

The Christian Standard Bible Version (my new Bible) says,

"The course of my life is in Your power."

Think of a mountain stream...

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Can you somehow picture one in your mind???

(hehehe, just a little help from me!)

You might think that the flow of the stream (a.k.a your life) should go down

the right hand side of that picture.

But the God of the Universe KNEW that it needed to go on the left hand side

of this picture.

He also added some rocks and a "downside" (waterfall) to your life.

A place where you feel as though you are free falling with no support when

you fall.

But.God.is.there.

Be brave.

Be strong.

Don't give up.

Be content.

Expect God to be with you!!

Amen.

Ok...now onto our Bible study for this week:

Verse 15 ~ "All of us who are mature should take such a view of things. And if on some point you think differently, that too God will make clear to you.

Verse 16 ~ Only let us live up to what we have already attained.

Verse 17 ~ Join others in following my example, brother, and take note of those who live according to the pattern we gave you.

Verse 18 ~ For, as I have often told you before and now say again even with tears, many live as enemies of the cross of Christ.

Verse 19 ~ Their destiny is destruction, their god is their stomach, and their glory is in their shame. Their mind is on earthly things.

Verse 20 ~ But our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ,

Verse 21 ~ who, by the power that enables him to bring everything under His control, will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like his glorious body."

W.O.W. ~ As I typed that....I was challenged, convicted and given courage!!!!

(all in that order)

Let's pick up where we left off last week with...

Discipline: (If you are a little lost, plz go back one post and read
)

In order to keep moving forward, we must exhibit discipline.

"All of us who are mature should take such a view of things. And if on some point you think differently, that too God will make clear to you. Only let us live up to what we have already attained."

Paul is really telling us to take a “chill pill”

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when it comes to trying to control other people.

We must remember that our response is our responsibility.

He challenges us to view our Christian lives the way he has laid them out

(think mountain stream)

but if we think differently, God will make it clear.

Leave it in His hands.

Some of us need to heed these words because we’ve taken on too much

responsibility for the response of others.


We must take the focus off of what others are thinking and doing

and live up to what we have already attained.

This means that we are to keep on living by staying in the race,

running in our lane as we move forward.


















Discipleship:

In order to stay in the race, we must deepen our discipleship.

We do that in 2 ways:

1.) We are to follow the good examples of others.

2.) We are to reject the bad examples and do not follow them.

Good Examples:

Join with others in following my example, brothers, and take note of those who live according to the pattern we gave you.

That doesn’t mean Paul is perfect but it does mean that he is on the right path.


In 1 Corinthians 11:1, Paul declares,

Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.

The word “pattern” is from a mold into which clay or wax was pressed.

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It’s healthy for us to have people to look up to,

people who can mentor us as they model Christ.


At our church, CGC, part of our vision is to be a mentoring church.

A church that generations can learn from each other.

A church that has a strong family feel in many ways.

A church that respects and honors all generations.

It is my husband's and my duty before God to help blend

and help to disciple these generations. Amen!

Bad Examples:

For, as I have often told you before and now say again even with tears, many live as enemies of the cross of Christ. Their destiny is destruction, their god is their stomach, and their glory is in their shame. Their mind is on earthly things.

I’m struck by how tender Paul is even towards those he refers to as enemies.

When he considers their destiny which is destruction,

when he states that their appetites control everything they do (ouch!)

and how they take pride in shameful things,

he breaks down and cries.

When’s the last time you cried over the condition of someone? (double ouch)


Because their mind and focus is on worldly things,

It should cause us to cry.

But do we?

I'll be transparent here...I don't...

Word of warning, however ~

We need to have discernment (judgment with a view to obtaining

spiritual direction.)

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and this next one is for you, Darlene...

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(discernment) in order to grow in our discipleship

because these “enemies of the cross of Christ" may even be in church circles,

writing Christian books,

speaking at Christian conferences,

and sitting next to you on Sunday mornings.

(or afternoons which is our service time)



Delight:

Paul doesn’t want to end on a bummer,

so he brings it all together by focusing on our delight in
verses 20-21:

But our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ, who, by the power that enables him to bring everything under his control, will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like his glorious body."

Our perspective will determine our priorities.

As we live in the future tense,

we will have freedom from the past

and find delight in the present.

These closing verses establish several truths to delight in

that will change our perspective.
  • Our home is in heaven. We are citizens of another place.
  • Jesus is coming again. We need to eagerly wait for Him.
  • Everything will be made right. All things will be brought under His order.
  • We will be transformed. The best is yet to come!

If we want to press on when the pressure’s on,

and get in spiritual shape,

we must implement these essentials:

  1. Dissatisfaction
  2. Devotion
  3. Direction
  4. Determination
  5. Discipline
  6. Discipleship
  7. Delight

What’s dragging you down today?

What is it that you are leashed to?

It’s time to let it go so you can really grow.

It's time to get out of your greenhouse

and plant yourself in the soil of the world

**who needs you to flourish and tell them about Christ

**who need you to be transplanted in their area

**who needs you to show your contentment in trying circumstances

**who needs you to show your discipline, discipleship and delight

Another word for delight is...JOY!!!

(Now where have we heard that word before?)

Until next week,

Debbie G.

Resource:
www.preceptaustin.org
>Sermon "Pressing On When The Pressure's On" by Brian Bill




Tuesday, July 1, 2008

The Book of Philippians

God has been taking me over and over to the Scripture in Philippians 4:11b ~
  • "...for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content." (King James Version)
  • "...for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances." (New International Version)
  • "...Actually, I don't have a sense of needing anything personally. I've learned by now to be quite content whatever my circumstances. I'm just as happy with little as with much, with much as with little. I've found the recipe for being happy whether full or hungry, hands full or hands empty. Whatever I have, wherever I am, I can make it through anything in the One who makes me who I am." (The Message Bible verses 11b-13)

I added different versions because, the KJV is the one that is precious to me, because that is the one that I learned growing up. The other two are very good, also.

I could go and buy or look in our closet for all of the Bible Study books that have been written on the Book of Philippians. Instead, I am being encouraged by the Holy Spirit to listen to Him and to listen to you. I love Bible Study, because I am richly blessed by hearing all of the different angles that each person brings to the table from his or her own personal life or spiritual experiences.

So, let's pretend that we are sitting around my kitchen table with our Bibles open, note books opened to a blank page, our pens raised, our coffee or tea simmering in our cup or cooling with our ice cubes, the fragrance of cinnamon and sugar is coming from our coffee cake up to our nose and we are excited to see what God is going to show us today in His Word. "Today in His Word"...a book that was written 2,000 years ago and it can touch us and break us and form us today in 2008!!

Will you join me? Will you enter in? Will you read and ask God to show you (and me) what He needs to teach us for our lives today?

In His Service,

Debbie Gerstenberger