Verse 26 ~ "For he longs for all of you..." There it is...homesick...nice try!
No, you did not read far enough. "and is distressed..." You say...There it is
again...so homesick, pining away that he became distressed!
The word "distressed" describes the confused restless half-distracted state
produced by physical derangement or mental distress. So he says that Ep
is restless and he is in turmoil and he is distressed.



By the way, this is the same word used in Matthew 26:38, where Jesus in the
Garden of Gethsemane says that His soul is deeply grieved to the point of death.
Full of heaviness. He is really upset.
It is the distress that follows a great traumatic shock.
This, I believe, is what we use the term for Post Traumatic Shock Disorder
or PTSD in today's world.
But the rest of verse 26 and part of 27 says: "because you heard he was ill. Indeed
he was ill and almost died."
We may think: "What planet did that kind of guy get off of?
I have never heard of such a thing."
When is the last time you got completely disoriented and restless
and totally distressed because you knew somebody was feeling bad
about your situation? And your distress was directly related to the fact
that they were having a difficult time with your situation?
Now...that will show you the depth of love.
Now...that will show you the bond.
Unfortunately, in our society, we are more concerned with things than people.
More concerned with possessions

than relationships.
"Our" Ep was some kind of guy.
He loved his Philippian church family so deeply that he does not want them to be
distressed. Paul says that he has to send him back because he is so distressed
that you have heard about the fact that he almost died and he wants to eliminate
your distress. And what a compassionate man Paul was! Paul could have said,
"Look, Ep...get your act together, for mercy sake, we have got to advance the
kingdom. Don't you know that I am THE Apostle, and you have to stay here for
me? You can't be worried about how they feel about how you feel!"
Nope.
The problem is that Paul feels bad because Ep feels bad that the Philippians
feel bad. Everybody feels bad. So, Paul says..."You've got to go because they
feel bad, you feel bad, I feel bad. If you just go, they'll feel good, you'll feel
good, I'll feel good." 
Isn't it wonderful to know that some people in the ministry are compelled
by relationships rather than programs?
Paul is saying that he is more concerned about Ep's and the Philippian church's
JOY than his...
That's humility...that is absence of complaining.
In Philippians 2:3-4, Paul writes:
"Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others."
Paul was walking the talk.
Which brings me to some life application questions:
1.) Have you tried to out-love your spouse, children, parents, inlaws?
2.) Have you sacrificed in ministry to others?
3.) What allurements have you turned from in order to wholly focus on Christ?
4.) What have given yourself away for a cause other than your own fulfillment?
Let's pray...
Dear Heavenly Father,
Lord, help us to be like Ep. He had a humble concern for the needs of others.
He was so loving. We see him risking his life to meet the needs of Paul. Help
us to put relationships above things and not to find ourselves trying to insulate
ourselves into comfort zones. Put us out there on the cutting edge where we
risk, where we can see Your mighty hand of deliverance in our behalf. Some
of us don't even know what it is to be rescued because we have never been
where there is any danger. We've never opened our mouth to speak of Christ.
We've never taken a stand. Help us, Lord, to know how to listen for Your direction
and Your calling. We want our lives to be a pleasing fragrance rising to Your
throne. We want our sacrifice of our lives to be acceptable for Your glory in
Jesus name. Amen.
In sobering repentance,
Debbie G.
(Resource: www.preceptaustin.org - Look under "Links" on the sidebar of thisblog and click on "Online Commentary". Commentary by John MacArthur for Philippians 2:25-30)
Hi Debbie,
ReplyDeleteWouldn't you love to know the REST of the story (as Paul Harvey would say?) I wonder what Ep did when he got back? I wonder what his church family felt? I w2onder if they were challenged to live out the gospel even more radically because Ep came back and they wnated to honor Paul. One day we WILL know the "rest of the story".
Be Blessed,
Andrea
Thanks for the comment, Andrea!
ReplyDeleteYour comment reminds me of the song on my Playlist on the blog that says "What a happy day!" What a happy day it will be when we are in heaven and can actually TALK to Ep!!!! Whooo Hooo!!
Debbie G.
Debbie. Thanks for your sweet weekly devotions. I am enjoying them. The adoption video was so powerful this week. Just as Andrea wrote, I also want to know the "rest of the story".
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Blessings,
Carmen
Thanks, Carmen for the comment!
ReplyDeleteI will check out your site.
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Debbie G.
Hi Debbie,
ReplyDeleteGreat job on this weeks post. I liked hearing about Ep and things about him that I have never thought about before.
Love you,
Darlene